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Maria de la Orden Shirt: How to Style One Patterned Shirt 30 Ways

Just the Fits: No Filler How to Style One Patterned Shirt 30 Ways Everything used in the collages is featured in Finds. Filter by price or what it is you’re interested in (tops, bottoms), etc. I love how these looks show off this smocked waist Maria de la Orden shirt in fresh ways—proof that you don’t need more clothes, just more creativity. Snap a pic to save in the app so you’ll remember your favorite combos, then save them to your Finds for next-level style inspo. Every item you see here lives in Finds—no surprises, just real ways to wear what you already own.  

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How to Style Wildly Patterned Silk Pants for Every Season

Why Wild Patterns Are Closet Gold https://youtube.com/shorts/LNBpUsBO9iM?feature=share Ever stare down a pair of wildly patterned silk pants and think, “Stunning, but where would I wear those?” Let me stop you right there. These aren’t just pants—they’re a lifestyle, a statement, a wearable vacation, and yes, a surprisingly practical choice. Whether you’re dressing for winter layering or beach lounging, there’s a way to make them work. The secret? Treat them like the secret neutrals they are. All the items shown for styling are in FINDS, which is easily searchable (filter by category and price). There are over 70 ways to wear these pants, so keep scrolling and be inspired!  📌 Pin This CLOSET GOLD: Start with the pattern: The more colors in the print, the more tops, shoes, and accessories in your closet will magically match. A two-tone print is cute but limiting. A wild five-color mix? It’s counterintuitive, but a five-color wild mix gives you more styling freedom than a minimalist black-and-white pair. Plus, wild patterns hide wear and tear, spills, and stains—making them not just stylish, but secretly durable.That’s styling gold. That’s a low cost-per-wear. 📌 Pin This These two colors are a beautiful pairing. They make your pairing options slightly more limited though. Which is fine if you love them! It is just something to be aware of if you’re looking to build an optimized wardrobe. 📌 Pin This Think texture, not just color: Mix in knits for cold weather or the airport, linens in warm weather, or silks for dressy nights. Add layers for the plane. Use as a coverup at the pool. Throw on for breakfast, but look polished instead of ragged. Upload your fits to Adjust My Crown so you remember what works (and what felt best). That makes life and packing easier… optimization with a side of style. 📌 Pin This Look $750 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $620 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $160 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $750 Take me there

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See how to style one shirt ten ways.
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La Veste: One Shirt Ten Ways

Just the Fits: No Filler How to style 1 shirt 10 ways Everything used in the collages is featured in Finds. Filter by price or what it is you’re interested in (tops, bottoms), etc. I splurged on this shirt during my spring Paris visit and have worn it 10x more than I thought I would. I only went into La Veste to buy a terrycloth cover up (I have a secret terrycloth coverup addiction – they’re SO SNUGGLY). I love how these looks show off a blue and white striped shirt in fresh ways—proof that you don’t need more clothes, just more creativity… AND MORE REMEMBERING. Take a screenshot (or snap a pic in the app) so you’ll remember your favorite combos. Every item you see here lives in Finds—no surprises, just real ways to wear what you already own.

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Learn how important shoes are to an outfit. They make a look polished or with sneakers, more casual. The dress does matter though!
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An Easy Dress, Styled for Everyday: Polish vs. Sneakers

Just the Fits: No Filler An Easy Dress, Styled for Everyday: Polish vs. Sneakers This is one of the few collages where not everything used in the collages is featured in Finds. Growing pains! I know it’s frustrating, but this old lady is slowly figuring it all out. I can solve your style dilemmas, but tech? Not so much. Please email me if you want more information on something specific. I’ve got your back. xo Hey friend, welcome to your new favorite outfit inspo spot! These collages take one dress and show you all the fun ways it can “read” differently—whether you’re feeling polished or leaning into sneakers, or mixing high and low pieces. My goal is to spark a “Hey, I already own that!” moment so you can dig through your closet, remix what you love, and feel that thrill of styling something fresh. Once you’ve played around with these looks, save your favorites in Adjust My Crown—this is how you build your very own lookbook, a confidence-boosting gallery that’s always ready when you need a quick outfit win. You’ll discover you can shop your closet, keep your style feeling new, and banish that “What am I even wearing?” panic forever. (And yes, if a cheeky new piece sneaks in, that’s totally allowed—just remember why you fell for it in the first place!) Got a style question or a closet dilemma? Shoot me an email anytime—I’ve got you! Styling people is my favorite (and I don’t love a big budget – I like a CHALLENGE. Oh, and a few of these dresses were from Walmart, all were under $100, and there’s a lot from Etsy and Amazon pictured here alongside the crazy expensive things.)

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Soft, Sweet, and Stylish: Sweatshirt Styling Tips Inspired by Rococo Romance

There’s something undeniably charming about blending comfort with romance — especially when the inspiration is Rococo. Picture it: soft pastels, delicate ruffles, and ornate details — but make it cozy enough for a nap. That’s the vibe we’re channeling today with a Ralph Lauren Wimbledon sweatshirt as our canvas. The challenge? A darling human who knows her style (think romantic, feminine, and a bit dreamy) requested: “Make this feminine… but also, it’s nap time.” So, we need pieces that balance comfort with ladylike touches, layers that add interest without sacrificing ease, and accessories that feel intentional yet relaxed. Final Thoughts: It’s All About What Feels Good Ultimately, the goal here is to blend comfort with a touch of Rococo magic. Have fun with your outfit, and don’t overthink it. Layer, experiment, and — most importantly — love what you’re wearing. After all, you’re the one who gets to feel fabulous (or take a nap) in it. Now go on, add that Rococo touch to your favorite sweatshirt and show the world that romantic style and cozy vibes can coexist beautifully. 📌 Pin This Step 1: Balance Cozy and Cute Comfy bottoms are key here. Try soft wide-leg trousers in pastel hues, knit skirts that skim the ankle, or even high-waisted lounge pants in a luxe fabric. The goal? Feel like yourself, but elevated — as if you’re channeling Marie Antoinette on a Sunday morning. 📌 Pin This Step 2: Shop Your Closet for Romantic Details Start by pulling out pieces that give a nod to old-world femininity. Think ruffled blouses, embroidered cardigans, or anything with a bit of lace or crochet. These are your layering heroes, adding texture and softness to balance the sporty edge of the sweatshirt. 📌 Pin This Step 3: Play with Patterns and Colors Don’t shy away from mixing prints. Floral leggings under an oversized sweatshirt, plaid skirts paired with a lacy tank — it’s all about creating unexpected pairings that feel intentional and a little decadent. If in doubt, stick to a color palette of soft pinks, creams, and muted blues.Don’t be afraid to mix it all! 📌 Pin This 📌 Pin This Look $15 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $45.46 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $45.46 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $20 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $19.97 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $79.9 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $328 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $36 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $253 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $253 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $239 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $215 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $180 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $28.67 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $650 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $650 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $650 Take me there

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Clutch, Please

Pretty or Huh? This floral-embroidered midi is pure romance. Depending on your personality, you may want to cut the sweetness with some serious personality, lean into the details, go classic… Strictly speaking, etiquette leans toward fabric clutches (like satin or silk) for formal or garden party settings. Leather works too — just make sure it feels refined and seasonally appropriate. Beaded and embellished clutches also work. I also think you should just throw etiquette out the window and treat others the way you want to be treated. My personal pick? I love the French Fries and I’m sorry for making you cringe. Post polls comparing clutches you own to these clutches to see which “wins” if you’re not sure. No matter what you do, love it. 📌 Pin This These clutches are playful statement pieces. From french fry cartons to a retro boombox and a cupcake, they’re more conversation starters than classic accessories — perfect for adding a quirky twist to an elegant look. They’re also perfect for introverts because they’re conversation starters. 📌 Pin This These clutches are pure elegance with a touch of unexpected shine. From the quilted gold classic to the sculptural metallic statement and dreamy pastel satin, they strike that perfect balance of ladylike but modern. 📌 Pin This These clutches are like wearable bouquets — floral, ornate, and unapologetically romantic. They make a statement without losing their ladylike charm (French Fries I’m looking at you, even though you are my favorite). 📌 Pin This Look $995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $5995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $5995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $1995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $4995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $4500 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $1750 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $2850 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $35.89 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $31.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $31.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $29.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $32.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $33 Take me there

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From Sneakers to Polished

Not into tennis shoes? Or into tennis shoes during the day, only when necessary, but the kind of girl who wants polish, as often as possible? No problem. Your outfits should work harder for you than you did to buy those outfits, but usually we don’t require much of them. Just swap the sneakers for ballet flats, sandals, or a block heel when the sun goes down. Same base, different look.

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How to style dresses with sneakers
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Can You Really Wear Sneakers With Everything? The Art of the Sporty-Sweet Combo Fit

Short answer: yes. And I do — often because of my very casual lifestyle in a very casual city. The casualization of American fashion? It’s a whole thing. Some call it a tragedy (hi, Tom Ford). Others find it liberating. Honestly, I’m both. I miss the glamour, but I also love being able to run through a full day — errands, schooling my boys (while they’re still shorter than me) in basketball before I go to tennis matches for older sisters, to early dinner — in tennis shoes without blinking or changing. The secret to making sneakers feel intentional? High-low balance. Think: an easy dress + sneakers + jewelry that’s uniquely you. Something with a little story — vintage (from your grandmother?), a charm bracelet that feels personal, a necklace you’ve worn forever, a signet ring that makes you smile, earrings you never take off. Keep the sneakers and jewelry on repeat, and just rotate the dress. It’s a real-life uniform that works hard without feeling tired. For these collages I was mindful of how expensive some of recommended tennis shoes & bags were, so none of the dresses are over $100 (Think Walmart, Old Navy, Abercrombie). Two are from Walmart and they fit beautifully and the fabric is easily as good as a dress that is over $500. Because I wear my sneakers constantly, I don’t mind spending a little more on them. The cost-per-wear always ends up lower, which is the kind of math I can get behind. Bonus: I don’t have to think too hard. And I like it that way. So where does the Adjust My Crown app fit into all of this — and how does it help you become the chicest version of yourself in less time than you’ve ever spent getting dressed? Use it to pre-shop smarter. You can post side-by-sides: things you already own next to the new item you’re considering orpit two new options against each other in a poll. Let your closet (and your community) weigh in before you commit. Once you do buy something new, style it every way you can while the dopamine is high and you’re still in love with it. Then save those looks in the app so they’re ready when you’re not feeling inspired. I know — you think you’ll remember all the ways you wore it. But trust me, it’s freeing to offload that mental clutter. In the morning, you can just scroll your collections, pick a fully styled outfit (accessories and all), and be out the door looking and feeling amazing in under a minute. Want to polish these same dresses? See the next post…

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