Stuck in a cycle of doubt about your style.
Not knowing how to put together outfits.
Continuing to buy clothes you won't wear.
Unsure of what looks best.
Wasting time shopping without clarity on your looks, what you wear.
Feeling overwhelmed by your wardrobe choices.
Feeling lost and uninspired by your fashion. Knowing you can do better.
Missing out on confidence in your daily looks.
(That’ll Still Look Chic Next Spring Too) Let’s be honest — we’ve all bought the wrong shoes, that end up languishing in our closets. The one that’s too loud/too quiet (that “classic” you’re “supposed” to own), too expensive, and somehow manages to play well with nothing. Cute for a moment, but not exactly pulling its weight. This spring? We’re skipping the fuss. The shoes below are what I like to call “quietly fabulous” — easy, elevated, and real-life ready. For this roundup, think natural textures, soft metallics, pretty sparkle, and playful details that keep things interesting without trying too hard. Whether you’re running errands, heading to brunch, or on the Amalfi coast, these go with everything — and make you feel like the most pulled-together version of yourself. These are the shoes you’ll keep by the door. The ones you pack without overthinking. The ones that make a $40 dress look expensive and a basic tee and cutoffs feel intentional. Also, I’m pretty sure every single pair will play nicely with every single thing you already own and love… but make all your fits feel fresh. 📌 Pin This Look $110 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $38 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $1525 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $140 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $140 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $140 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $160 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $160 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $130 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $80.16 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $140 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $140 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $325 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $325 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $1525 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $160 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $350 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $595 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $735 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $125 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $295 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $295 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $295 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $295 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $280 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $280 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $280 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $280 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $325 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $295 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $345 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $195 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $129.95 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $129.95 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $140 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $1245 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $89.66 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $79 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $210 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $210 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $195 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $88.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $105.64 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $525 Take me there
(That Aren’t Golden Goose, Veja, or Adidas) So, you’re planning to walk. A lot. Love that for you — and same! Walking around European cities is a whole vibe — so different from my American routine of driving everywhere. I’m a fan of walking (and walking) through places like Paris, where every corner feels like a postcard. But let’s talk shoes. You want comfort, style, and longevity — without defaulting to the usual suspects (no offense to Golden Goose, Veja, or Adidas). That’s why I’ve rounded up 50 pairs of stylish walking shoes for travel that offer great cost-per-wear and look good while doing it. Some are a little splurgy and trendy (looking at you, Louis Vuitton Sneakerinas), but most are reasonably priced and designed to keep up with your 20,000-step days. Whether you’re exploring Paris, Burgundy, or your favorite local trail, you’ll find a pair that fits your style and budget. Before I pick a new pair myself, though, I’m doing a little outfit tracking with Adjust My Crown to make sure I’m buying what actually works with my wardrobe — not just what looks cute on someone else. Pro tip: it’s not about matching but finding a pair that “goes” with what you actually wear. (If you’re curious about the Onitsuka Tiger’s, this podcast is a great listen. I love that the Tiger’s are making a “style” play decades later. Highly recommend the Nike episode I linked, but also the one on LVMH, and Hermes) Ready to step up your travel shoe game? Let’s find your perfect pair. 📌 Pin This Do you see how every shoe looks effortlessly good with this dress (an Old Navy find at an incredible price point btw). Another thing I love about this dress is that it could double as a coverup if you’re in the South of France or Capri, etc. Sneakers add such a cool edge to dresses. Don’t overthink what “matches” and just make sure the colors “go together” instead of matching. Where you’re unsure, post options in the Adjust My Crown app. Give us some context in the comments. Maybe you’re stuck between two metallic shoe options? Tell us in the comments what colors you usually wear or anything that helps us vote and help you decide. 📌 Pin This Investing in an Erdem dress (yes, it’s over $1,200) can feel daunting, but think cost per wear — it’s a versatile staple that works countless ways. 1. Holiday Ready: Add pink accessories for a fresh take on red and green at Lyford. 2. Sporty Chic: Going to the Miami Open or Wimbledon? Pair with a straw hat for effortless style. 3. Travel Friendly: Lightweight and breathable, perfect for sightseeing with under-$50 sneakers. 4. Creative Tip: Don’t limit a designer piece to special occasions — mix high and low for more wear! 📌 Pin This When a look just works, you feel it. Start with a $10 white V-neck under a statement jacket — effortlessly chic. These silk pants are a game changer: temperature-regulating and super comfy with an elastic waistband. Travel: Perfect for the plane — breathable and stylish (and elastic!) Beach: Layer over a bikini for an easy cover-up. Dinner at the Michelin restaurant you barely got into? Pair with a sequin top for a glam night out. Casual: Throw on a basic tee for the market. Sneaker Chic: Dressy silk + sporty sneakers = fresh and modern. 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There’s something undeniably charming about blending comfort with romance — especially when the inspiration is Rococo. Picture it: soft pastels, delicate ruffles, and ornate details — but make it cozy enough for a nap. That’s the vibe we’re channeling today with a Ralph Lauren Wimbledon sweatshirt as our canvas. The challenge? A darling human who knows her style (think romantic, feminine, and a bit dreamy) requested: “Make this feminine… but also, it’s nap time.” So, we need pieces that balance comfort with ladylike touches, layers that add interest without sacrificing ease, and accessories that feel intentional yet relaxed. Final Thoughts: It’s All About What Feels Good Ultimately, the goal here is to blend comfort with a touch of Rococo magic. Have fun with your outfit, and don’t overthink it. Layer, experiment, and — most importantly — love what you’re wearing. After all, you’re the one who gets to feel fabulous (or take a nap) in it. Now go on, add that Rococo touch to your favorite sweatshirt and show the world that romantic style and cozy vibes can coexist beautifully. 📌 Pin This Step 1: Balance Cozy and Cute Comfy bottoms are key here. Try soft wide-leg trousers in pastel hues, knit skirts that skim the ankle, or even high-waisted lounge pants in a luxe fabric. The goal? Feel like yourself, but elevated — as if you’re channeling Marie Antoinette on a Sunday morning. 📌 Pin This Step 2: Shop Your Closet for Romantic Details Start by pulling out pieces that give a nod to old-world femininity. Think ruffled blouses, embroidered cardigans, or anything with a bit of lace or crochet. These are your layering heroes, adding texture and softness to balance the sporty edge of the sweatshirt. 📌 Pin This Step 3: Play with Patterns and Colors Don’t shy away from mixing prints. Floral leggings under an oversized sweatshirt, plaid skirts paired with a lacy tank — it’s all about creating unexpected pairings that feel intentional and a little decadent. If in doubt, stick to a color palette of soft pinks, creams, and muted blues.Don’t be afraid to mix it all! 📌 Pin This 📌 Pin This Look $15 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $45.46 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $45.46 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $20 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $19.97 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $79.9 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $328 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $150 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $36 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $253 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $253 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $239 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $215 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $180 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $28.67 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $650 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $650 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $650 Take me there
Pretty or Huh? This floral-embroidered midi is pure romance. Depending on your personality, you may want to cut the sweetness with some serious personality, lean into the details, go classic… Strictly speaking, etiquette leans toward fabric clutches (like satin or silk) for formal or garden party settings. Leather works too — just make sure it feels refined and seasonally appropriate. Beaded and embellished clutches also work. I also think you should just throw etiquette out the window and treat others the way you want to be treated. My personal pick? I love the French Fries and I’m sorry for making you cringe. Post polls comparing clutches you own to these clutches to see which “wins” if you’re not sure. No matter what you do, love it. 📌 Pin This These clutches are playful statement pieces. From french fry cartons to a retro boombox and a cupcake, they’re more conversation starters than classic accessories — perfect for adding a quirky twist to an elegant look. They’re also perfect for introverts because they’re conversation starters. 📌 Pin This These clutches are pure elegance with a touch of unexpected shine. From the quilted gold classic to the sculptural metallic statement and dreamy pastel satin, they strike that perfect balance of ladylike but modern. 📌 Pin This These clutches are like wearable bouquets — floral, ornate, and unapologetically romantic. They make a statement without losing their ladylike charm (French Fries I’m looking at you, even though you are my favorite). 📌 Pin This Look $995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $5995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $5995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $1995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $4995 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $4500 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $1750 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $2850 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $35.89 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $31.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $31.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $29.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $32.99 Take me there 📌 Pin This Look $33 Take me there
Why Your Best Style Is All About You Over the past 20+ years of helping women find that aha moment — whether it’s cleaning out their closets, restyling what they already own, or finding a few new pieces — I’ve never met a single body that couldn’t have that transformative moment. And I’ve never met two bodies that were exactly alike. Realizing that truth over and over again has taught me something invaluable: every shape and size can have that wow moment when they finally see themselves differently. To get there, we usually have to forget about body types, ignore fashion rules and trends, and embrace the body we have right now — whether it’s a transitional phase or not. Your Proportions Are One of a Kind Here’s a quick example: I’m 5’7”, but I wear petites on the bottom and can wear talls on top. That doesn’t sound “normal,” right? The usual wisdom says petites are for anyone under 5’4”, but my inseam? It’s a petite-friendly 25 inches — almost toddler length. If I listened to conventional advice, I’d feel like something was wrong with me. But the truth is, it’s just who I am. It’s never going to change, and I wouldn’t want it to. It’s a reminder to stop comparing yourself to others and instead see how something works on you. That’s why the side-by-side comparisons in the Adjust My Crown app are so powerful. You’re not looking at how jeans fit someone else — you’re looking at how two styles fit you. Compare two jean leg options — on your body. Compare two denim shades — on your shape. Compare two rises to see which one hits your waist just right — today, on today’s body. The key is not to worry about how something looks on someone else or what they recommend. Take every bit of advice with a grain of salt, and focus on how it looks and feels on you. That’s it. That’s all that really matters. If you love how you feel and look, that confidence will naturally follow. Why I Don’t Post My Own Outfits I’m here to support you — to curate thoughtful options, help you maximize cost-per-wear, and guide you through closet cleanouts. But I’m not here to model looks on my own body because it doesn’t help you find your best self. I’ll give you ideas and tips, but they’re meant for you to consider through the lens of your own body. Sure, I’m not a fan of being in front of the camera, but that’s not the real reason — it just feels irrelevant. What I wear or how it looks on me won’t help you discover your own style. Be skeptical of any recommended “finds” — even mine. Always ask yourself: Does this feel good on me? Does it fit my proportions and lifestyle right now? I’m here for you. If you have challenges or requests, send them my way. Let’s figure it out together. Download the Adjust My Crown app and start comparing clothes on your own body. Because your proportions aren’t the problem. They’re the secret. And remember: always be a thoughtful skeptic, even of my picks. Your body is one of one. Your style should be too.
Not into tennis shoes? Or into tennis shoes during the day, only when necessary, but the kind of girl who wants polish, as often as possible? No problem. Your outfits should work harder for you than you did to buy those outfits, but usually we don’t require much of them. Just swap the sneakers for ballet flats, sandals, or a block heel when the sun goes down. Same base, different look.
Short answer: yes. And I do — often because of my very casual lifestyle in a very casual city. The casualization of American fashion? It’s a whole thing. Some call it a tragedy (hi, Tom Ford). Others find it liberating. Honestly, I’m both. I miss the glamour, but I also love being able to run through a full day — errands, schooling my boys (while they’re still shorter than me) in basketball before I go to tennis matches for older sisters, to early dinner — in tennis shoes without blinking or changing. The secret to making sneakers feel intentional? High-low balance. Think: an easy dress + sneakers + jewelry that’s uniquely you. Something with a little story — vintage (from your grandmother?), a charm bracelet that feels personal, a necklace you’ve worn forever, a signet ring that makes you smile, earrings you never take off. Keep the sneakers and jewelry on repeat, and just rotate the dress. It’s a real-life uniform that works hard without feeling tired. For these collages I was mindful of how expensive some of recommended tennis shoes & bags were, so none of the dresses are over $100 (Think Walmart, Old Navy, Abercrombie). Two are from Walmart and they fit beautifully and the fabric is easily as good as a dress that is over $500. Because I wear my sneakers constantly, I don’t mind spending a little more on them. The cost-per-wear always ends up lower, which is the kind of math I can get behind. Bonus: I don’t have to think too hard. And I like it that way. So where does the Adjust My Crown app fit into all of this — and how does it help you become the chicest version of yourself in less time than you’ve ever spent getting dressed? Use it to pre-shop smarter. You can post side-by-sides: things you already own next to the new item you’re considering orpit two new options against each other in a poll. Let your closet (and your community) weigh in before you commit. Once you do buy something new, style it every way you can while the dopamine is high and you’re still in love with it. Then save those looks in the app so they’re ready when you’re not feeling inspired. I know — you think you’ll remember all the ways you wore it. But trust me, it’s freeing to offload that mental clutter. In the morning, you can just scroll your collections, pick a fully styled outfit (accessories and all), and be out the door looking and feeling amazing in under a minute. Want to polish these same dresses? See the next post…
You know I can’t shake the cost-per-wear concept… I blame it on majoring in Economics? I just can’t handle the thought of not wearing things often. Loving them is the key I think? Spending $20 and wearing a shirt once is the same as wearing a shirt 10 times that cost $200… except the initial outlay is very different. I get it. I do. I just want you to think of how to rewear things, because you love them and love how you feel in them! This isn’t social media where a rewear is shameful, this is real life, and that’s the best. Real clouds, real friends, real hands to hold… The Masters is hard to dress for because it’s so long and boring, and the weather so dicey. Yeah, I just called it boring. Sorry. Changing accessories totally transforms the look and feel of the dress and makes it feel intentional and fresh. This bright dress is so beautifully detailed. The fabric is casual enough that you could wear it day to day, with anything from tennis shoes to Birkenstocks. The design is special enough to be dressed up easily. This dress is stunning. The shape could be worn anywhere, for any occasion. The fit is comfortable enough to be worn all day. It’s a special dress to be worn on repeat.
